Polyamory Experiment

We always experience tremendous personal growth when we get sexually and intimately close to others. It deepens your understanding of yourself and forces you to communicate with your partner or partners in a way a monogamous relationship never would. Well, a lot of the issues are the same. Jealousy is a big issue in relationships across the board. We tend to think of it as a poly issue but often there is even more jealousy in monogamous relationships.
Poly people are certainly open to the idea of multiple-partner marriage but it is not a high priority in swinger club sex. Due to employment discrimination and the need to be closeted other rights issues tend to be more important than marriage rights. At the moment we are just beginning the process of trying to be visible.

People are so unused to the idea of polyamory that it makes them uncomfortable and causes them to ostracize friends, family, and loved ones who do come out as poly. Sharing wife with another man also means everyone benefits from having another perspective — an objective viewpoint when it comes to decisions or any conflict that may arise while wife sharing. Each one of us became a mediator at different times in the relationship.